Let's start a revolution...

against the words 'hot' and 'fit' .

Guys, if you used the word 'beautiful' more often then more girls would feel it which might be nice...just saying...

been thinking 'bout it...

What happens when...

...there is no light at the end of the tunnel? What's more is no one around even has a torch to lend you. I'm fine but stuff and junk 'n' bleurgh.

been thinking 'bout it...

If a friend of yours failed badly...

...would you chastise and repeatedly tell them how badly they'd done? Hopefully your answer's no...so...why do we think it's okay to talk to ourselves in this way? We need to be more forgiving to ourselves.
Remember, bad choices don't make us into bad people...it's more about how we handle the consequences.

been thinking 'bout it...

Do guys really give each other kudos...

...for breaking girls' hearts?
Apparently, one reason behind the 'player' role which is so popular amongst men these days is that his guy friends all give him a pat on the back for his latest conquest. I have quite a few guys friends and frankly, I think them all too nice for this. They're such sweet people, such good friends, why would that change when the prefix 'boy' gets added to the role of 'friend'?
Has the media betrayed mankind?
Or do guys honestly think that treating women like crap is cool?
For the record, based on the guys I know, I'm going for the former.

been thinking 'bout it...

Why advertise bad health...

as though it's attractive?
It really bothers me to see emaciated, 6ft. concave-stomached mannequins in shop windows. NOBODY has that body shape. Anyone that tall and quite clearly that underweight would be facing serious problems. A concave-stomach is one thing to look out for if you're worried that someone you know might be suffering from anorexia nervosa; an illness which is affecting the youth of today now more than ever. It is an horrific thing to suffer as even when the body is returned to a healthy state, patients still have to cope with body-dismorphier, a warped self image.
Knowing the severity of this, why are reputable shops like Marks and Spencer stocking ill-looking mannequins? There is something very wrong with this.

been thinking 'bout it...

Being more than 10 minutes late is not fashionable...

...it's rude. If there is good reason then fine but purposefully turning up late in order to look 'cool'? that's annoying.

been thinking 'bout it...

I know I should be livid...

...when some guy cat calls or wolf whistles at me. I know I should find such a manner of objectifying women outrageous...but in all honesty, I just find it very flattering! I mean, it's not flowers or chocolate or love poetry and it really is just a mere rating of one's outward self but I can't help but feel a little lifted by it. I'm not condoning such shouts but if modern man no longer gives a pretty gal roses as a sign of affection then I've got to be able to appreciate whatever comes my way, right? xD

been thinking 'bout it...